We now have phrases like " friends with benefits" to make sure we are hyper-aware that times are different. Until that point, they were just "courting" and she (as well as he) could date/court as many others as they chose. Many women would not even consider a partner to be exclusive unless they were officially engaged. in your grandmother's day) things were a bit more cut and dry – a commitment meant an engagement to be married, along with a ring on the left hand and a date set for the wedding. The truth is it's such a difficult term to define, particularly in our modern culture of texting, "hanging out", and hooking up, not to mention the prevalence of living together before marriage. What does commitment really mean? Have you ever really sat down and thought about what it is, exactly, that you're looking for when you say you want a committed relationship? When you think that you want a guy to commit?
My question to you is this: What does a committed relationship look like to you?
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Or it might be that you're single, and you want to know how to find a man that IS ready for commitment, because all of the men you've met so far have turned out to be commitment phobes.įor all of these reasons, and many more, it's one of the biggest questions on our minds. a guy who strings you along for years only to finally break it off), or maybe you've already been strung along for quite a long time and you want to know how to get him to finally make a commitment. It might be that you've started dating a guy and you want to know if he's going to want a committed relationship or if he's going to turn into a stringer (i.e. You're wondering if you'll ever find a guy who really wants a commitment. You want a guy to want to have a committed relationship with you. I hear you saying that you want a guy to make a commitment to you. I hear the same thing from so many of you, and it's the same thing that I used to say myself not so very long ago.
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